"Love is the only moral of sexuality" said the the pedagogue O.M. Aïvanhov. Developing love is a full program for teenager, young adult and all of us! When we quit the childhood, we lose this subconsciousness of oneness to explore one gender. This lost is in fact terrible. This gradually immerses us in a state of distress, loneliness and intense needs to find our missing part around us, and in the other gender. This is the birth of attraction and sexual desire which are design to meet the difference, learn to give our confidence by developing our discernment to thrust the right person for us. This is like sailing in the fog surrounded by rocks with strong currents! We better learn to develop a kind of inner torch to explore a so cloudy world. The pedagogue Rudolf Steiner said that teenager develop their body of emotions which is the most painful period of our life development. Buddhist teach us that all sorrows come from ignorance, hate and fear. Meaning the lack of true knowledge base on the experience of our essential high nature, cultivating hate and negative emotions. And both generate bad will, laziness mother of all vices and fear by the lack of light or true experience of the reality and a lack of love. Emotions are designed to feel and become perceptive of our mind, in the purpose of developing the power to mold our body, to shape our behaviour and to feel the emotions of the other and to communicate our. Emotion allows us to develop our intuition, our inner perception of our essence and the essence of the other. This last aspect is the most important to underline and cultivate in order to flourish the most beautiful emotions of humankind. Instead of seeking for our complementary gender outside of us, we have to learn the advantage of taking the time to feel that our essence, hide in our heart, in our spine, in the center of each cell, is our complementary gender in it essential form, in it full intensity, purity and magnificence. This is one of the best exercice to restore the oneness, but fully aware and no longer in the subconsciousness of the childhood! The best way to achieve this state of being is to concentrate often on this inner opposite essence which drive our life. A man develop is beautiful mind and strength thanks to his warm feminine essence which inspire and elevate his mind, fortify his courage, give him an endless enthusiasm and inspire him the highest noble actions. A women develop her amazing sense of beauty, kindness and love thanks to her luminous masculine essence which enligth her, protect her, make her feel safe, strong and able to connect, offer, inspire, nurture and elevate the world around her. Meditate on this subject naturally, or by using habits like hiking, mindfulness meditation, painting, arts, harmonious musics, contemplation to inner connect with our higher self which is polarized, develop this unity in us, the one which is essential to restore the oneness which preserve us to hunt the other gender and which allow us to connect with the essence of the other and meet their higher-self, their potential. This process followed the maturation of the brain and the hormonal system which reach the full maturity around 30 years old. Patience, endurance and boldness during this long period bring an amazing ability to prepare ourself to put love before attraction, and so becoming a true adult, out of the natural narcissism of childhood, and so be able to distinguish other full develop people, attract them and choose the right person for us, to develop the loving attitude in order to forge a strong couple, able to offer a loving nest for our children and forge amazing humain in the futures generations.